The Educated Vs The Uneducated in Context to Relationships...

How can a person without a college education challenge their partner who has a college education? Challenge in terms of being debatable, knowledgeable, quick on your toes, and just all around informed about current events, and issues taking place in society. Over an enlightening conversation with a respective colleague of mine, it dawned on me, do people with higher education have a harder time getting a date compared to those that don't?

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Does the perception of a person having a degree scare, or turn off the opposite sex who feels Intimidated based on the Overconfidence a person with a college degree may posses?

Or, is it more about that a person without that higher education not wanting to hear the truth out of outright fear of rejection?

This is the latest trend hitting the dating scene, and I hear it from both men, and women alike.

But the question is How does one narrow this gap?

My response is by first and foremost being yourself, you can not change who you are for a second, the act may last, but consequently it will fail because the stress and pressure will build up to the point of a total collapse. If it does not work then it was not meant to be..take it as that, and move on.

Secondly,
Higher education is not for everyone nor does it measure compatibility with a partner either.. remember that funny feeling you get when your around someone that you truly care for, the way it makes you feel, the pausing heartbeats, and slight moments of breathlessness.. well, at the end of the day it did not matter how many degrees that person had, or how many times they were on the honor roll, at the end of the day it was about how that person made you feel.

Thirdly, from the standpoint of the higher educated person, a non educated, or not as educated person must understand that a higher educated persons way of thinking is far from the norm, little comments and or jokes that may seem entertaining to a friend may not be as appealing to the higher educated woman/man. Their mind frames are programmed completely different, their focus is what they are into, their degree field, their hobbies. Therefore if you want to impress a guy, or girl doing a little research never hurts a situation staying informed of current events in your mates, or hope to be mates interest only equates to better communication, openess, and a sense of your partner wanting to be expressive with you.

Remember, higher educated people love to show off their intelligence, so feed him or her information, let them know you can hang in their relam as well, it gives them a sense of competitiveness... and trust me they love that more than anything else!

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